Holding Space – Part I

Terrie and I have found the act of ‘holding space’ to be absolutely essential to intimate communication and to building trust in each other. We didn’t invent the term, and I’m not sure where we picked it up. I wouldn’t be surprised if it came from the Hendricks teachings on conscious loving (see www.Hendricks.com).
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Expectations, anyone?

Expectations are something in my relationships I prefer to not have. I believe expectations lead to disappointment, and that is definitely something I don’t want to get in the way of intimacy. They are part of this human experience though. We all have them. It’s whether or not we are aware of them and whether [...]