One way Terrie and I connect with each other in a profoundly intimate way is by what we have come to call “heart orgasms”. With clothes on or not, we lay (or stand) chest-to-chest so that our heart chakras are in close proximity (see NOTE below). Then we look deeply into each others’ eyes (the windows to our souls) and breathe together while focusing our attention on our heart centers. In a relatively short time we reach an energetic “climax”, which leaves each of us with a deep sense of warmth and fulfillment.
Sometimes we choose to share a heart orgasm when time is short and we crave a significant connection experience. Or, we may share a heart orgasm after a session of physical lovemaking. Each time the experience is a uniquely special one, and we always feel a deep sense of our oneness.
WHY NOT TRY HAVING A HEART ORGASM WITH YOUR INTIMATE PARTNER, THEN LET US KNOW WHAT YOU EXPERIENCED. JEFF
NOTE: If you are not familiar with the human energy body and the energy centers called the “chakras”, just look up “chakras” on the internet, or check your local bookstore for books on this topic.
Just today Terrie and I experienced two specific examples of the amazing degree of connection between us. I was sitting enjoying my morning cup of coffee at McDonald’s, when I had the urge to reach into my backpack to check for new voicemails or texts. Just as I picked up the phone, it was vibrating with an incoming call from–yup, you guessed it–Terrie! I was delighted at the synchronicity and told Terrie so. She proceeded to tell me about another synchronicity that had already occurred earlier today. I had e-mailed her right after publishing the first post on this, our new blog. I told her to read the post as soon as she had the chance. It turns out that while she was waiting in the doctor’s office for her appointment, Terrie was reading the blog post right as my e-mail reached her in-box!
When she told me about the second synchronicity, I got really excited and said “You know, it’s so cool when these things happen, but somehow I don’t feel that I am even giving them the significance they truly deserve.” Writing this blog is part of my attempt to do so–that is, to acknowledge the connection between us that clearly transcends the limitations of space. Some people call this telepathy. Carl Jung called it synchronicity. Whatever you call it, I think it is important that we acknowledge it, celebrate it and express gratitude for it. It’s fun! And it’s just another example of divine intimacy.
PLEASE SEND US A COMMENT AND SHARE AN EXPERIENCE OF SYNCHRONICITY/TELEPATHY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR INTIMATE PARTNER! JEFF
Very early in our relationship, Terrie and I were astounded by the intensity and depth of our intimacy. We began asking questions like: “Are we soulmates?” “Are we twin souls?” or “Are we twin flames?” We did some research (books, websites) and had some lively discussions concerning these relationship labels, including with people who considered themselves to be in such relationships. We found that there was quite a bit of controversy–or at least disagreement–over the definitions of “soulmate”, “twin flame”, etc. Eventually, we decided to come up with our own way of describing what we were experiencing–one that was both clear and meaningful, at least to us. Thus we arrived at the phrase “divine intimacy”.
The meaning of intimacy is clear, I think, even though it may look different for each couple. Intimacy is a conscious choice that two people in relationship make, whereby we seek a deeper level of interaction and connection with each other. But what makes a relationship “divine”? For Terrie and I, this means several things. First, our relationship is an entity in itself, to be cherished, protected and nurtured. Thus it is something distinct from our individual selves, though it cannot exist without our participation, of course. Second, spirituality is absolutely central in our relationship. The awareness of the sacred, especially when we maintain this awareness “in the moment”, creates a quality to our relationship which we call the “divine”. Seeing our relationship as divine enhances our sense of gratitude for what we experience together. We actually SEE the divine in each other, for example, when we connect with our souls, especially through extended eye contact. In fact, we see each other as incarnations of the god and the goddess, especially during lovemaking, which we find takes our sexual experience to a wonderful, expanded dimension. JEFF
