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What is Divine Intimacy?
Very early in our relationship, Terrie and I were astounded by the intensity and depth of our intimacy. We began asking questions like: “Are we soulmates?” “Are we twin souls?” or “Are we twin flames?” We did some research (books, websites) and had some lively discussions concerning these relationship labels, including with people who considered themselves to be in such relationships. We found that there was quite a bit of controversy–or at least disagreement–over the definitions of “soulmate”, “twin flame”, etc. Eventually, we decided to come up with our own way of describing what we were experiencing–one that was both clear and meaningful, at least to us. Thus we arrived at the phrase “divine intimacy”.
The meaning of intimacy is clear, I think, even though it may look different for each couple. Intimacy is a conscious choice that two people in relationship make, whereby we seek a deeper level of interaction and connection with each other. But what makes a relationship “divine”? For Terrie and I, this means several things. First, our relationship is an entity in itself, to be cherished, protected and nurtured. Thus it is something distinct from our individual selves, though it cannot exist without our participation, of course. Second, spirituality is absolutely central in our relationship. The awareness of the sacred, especially when we maintain this awareness “in the moment”, creates a quality to our relationship which we call the “divine”. Seeing our relationship as divine enhances our sense of gratitude for what we experience together. We actually SEE the divine in each other, for example, when we connect with our souls, especially through extended eye contact. In fact, we see each other as incarnations of the god and the goddess, especially during lovemaking, which we find takes our sexual experience to a wonderful, expanded dimension. JEFF
Exploring Diving Intimacy
Intimacy can be a tricky subject for most, at least it has been for me and many others I know. As I considered what I would contribute on this blog, I admit on some level there was a little hesitation—at first. I am a private person, especially when it comes to my relationships. Yet, here I willingly agreed to share a certain level of my experiences, my reflections, my feelings surrounding Divine Intimacy—what it means to me, how I define it, what I believe are the possibilities, the challenges and more importantly, the rewards.
The biggest reward I have been learning as it relates to the relationship with my Beloved is—the more I open to intimacy with my partner, the more I experience the Divine, increasing my capacity for love and compassion in my life. My heart is opened through connection with him and discovery and sharing of myself. My yoga—Union with Creator—complete.
The commitment in our relationship is first and foremost to our growth and healing, both as individuals and as the third entity, our relationship. I know, for myself, taking the risk to open up in such a profound way with another person does take courage, commitment and conviction. I confront myself on many levels and support and encourage my Beloved on his journey through his own confrontations. And one of the biggest is allowing him to support and encourage me.
Intimacy is commonly known as a close personal relationship, or being something private/personal. Yet, what exactly does that mean in your life and your relationships? How does it, or does it not, show up? What are your individual needs/wants/desires associated with it? I challenge you to look at your relationships—are you getting what you desire from them? Are they, for the most part, superficial or deep? Are you willing to put yourself on the skinny branches to increase intimacy in your life?
I am willing to explore this topic within myself, with my Beloved and share with you, our readers as I am led. I believe it IS a gateway to the Divine and very rewarding in so many ways. I affirm for you more love and compassion in your life! ~Terrie
