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The Shadow Knows

Terrie and I have been learning about how the shadow appears in our relationship and how to deal with it (or try, anyway). We had our first really “stormy” encounter recently (after seven months together). I ended up storming out of the house, because I didn’t want to face my shadow. This is a pattern [...]

being sick, letting go, welcoming support

December was a challenging time for me. With an acute sinus infection, I was sicker than I can ever remember being in my life. About ten days into it, I ended up dehydrated and worse with fever and intense pain wracking my head and body. My partner, Jeff, ended up taking me to the hospital [...]