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We were recently introduced to the idea of using Sacred Space as a way to build intimacy and deepen our relationship. We create Sacred Space by setting aside a specific period of time when we will be alone with each other, preferably in a quiet spot where we won’t be disturbed. So far we have [...]
Expectations are something in my relationships I prefer to not have. I believe expectations lead to disappointment, and that is definitely something I don’t want to get in the way of intimacy. They are part of this human experience though. We all have them. It’s whether or not we are aware of them and whether [...]
We speak of the trinity relationship is built on: Connection, Passion and Spirituality. This first entry for me is about Connection. I have had many opportunities these past couple of days, while my Beloved and I have been together, to feel connected and create intimacy. On one occasion I disconnected instead. To understand and share [...]
As part of our commitment to conscious connection, Terrie and I have begun to use two really neat practices.
PRACTICE #1
There are times when one of us–for whatever reason–is feeling relatively distant from the other. For example, an event or a discussion could trigger some of our “programming” from the past, resulting in one of us [...]
One way Terrie and I connect with each other in a profoundly intimate way is by what we have come to call “heart orgasms”. With clothes on or not, we lay (or stand) chest-to-chest so that our heart chakras are in close proximity (see NOTE below). Then we look deeply into each others’ eyes (the windows to [...]
Just today Terrie and I experienced two specific examples of the amazing degree of connection between us. I was sitting enjoying my morning cup of coffee at McDonald’s, when I had the urge to reach into my backpack to check for new voicemails or texts. Just as I picked up the phone, it was vibrating [...]